June 30, 2008

That thing called LOVE!




LOVE …
LOVE…????
In this world of pain, hurt, treachery, hatred, vengeance….it does exist! Love exists…passes through every little hurdle…and survives….survives to know that it can change the whole world. Such is the greatness of this simple emotion, which can’t be defined in one concept. It brings together hearts, melting even the strongest of boulders, yet all this is done silently and stealthily.


To love a person takes a great deal of courage, for it is just not another emotion that you can get over with or you can control or you can just calm it down….Love involves attachment, caring, intimacy, passion, bonding and most importantly, it involves that fragile thing –TRUST, which is the base for the commitment in love! Well, am not trying to scare anyone here, but then those who know of friendship, will know of love, and will know of what am talking about. Love is the exchange of your mind with another, your heart with another. It is tricky, risky, and unpredictable than most complicated of transplantations. You can’t explain why you fall in love with someone. As many say, opposites attract, but it can also mean you like that someone because they are similar to you in many ways. Whatever be the case, love happens…it jus does!!

Love doesn’t see time, caste, creed, status, and religion; it doesn’t see anything at all when it first comes. I am not really sure of love at first sight, but then the first sight can be the start of something. It’s the attraction that takes the priority in this case. But when it comes to a strong bonding for a long-term relationship, the priorities are different. You might have been friends with a person for a really long time, but gradually you realize the emotion has changed and you are ‘in love’ with this person. How can it be? How can this happen? Well, let me try telling you what I think. You like this person for some reason, the good vibes, and the similar likes and dislikes, the way you guys can initiate a conversation from thin air, etc. Unconsciously your mind reads them thoroughly; it taps into them, their personality, their character, evaluating the chances of being more than friends. You end up penetrating deep, loving them all the while, and finally reach the core… and there you find the most unexplainable rush,
you are in love, in love with this person, in love with this heart… this soul!

Now you all must be floating in this feeling, for it would have rung a thousand bells in your head by now. So let me just touch on yet another thing…. True love…True love?? What is that? …. I don’t really believe when someone says my love is true. It is so clichéd. Do they really know if it’s true? Can they prove to the world their love is different from others? Will their love conquer all????

Oh…. True love is not really what people call ‘true love’. It can never be defined. Everyone has their own definitions. But the truth is, it’s far more than you can define, far more than anyone can feel, too good to be on earth, it’s simply magic…

You might say all these are YOUR definitions…so what?? I still defined the one thing no one can really define… LOVE….


9 comments:

Shalini Gowrisankar said...

That was a very sweet post about love. Can't agree more with you UV. Keep blogging more :)

Unknown said...

Hey gal...
THANK Q for the comment. Sure wil blog more! Did ya notice its been exact one year since i blogged last....what a coincedence na??... :) and the extremes of the two blogs' content....

Karthik Ravi said...

Some nice thoughts for all the people who are in love!

Way to go ~UV~ :)

Shalini Gowrisankar said...

Oh yea, I jus did that :) looking to read more from you.

Hassan said...

hey... you - we!!! writer in-demand huh? a post per yr????

and abt the post, how true!!?!!

BUT..... you should also write about what the person goes through the following week.. lol...

anyway.. keep rockin'

Unknown said...

nice good job!!!!!!!

Pudei Bharathi said...

well some of the points u have said are true..but love happens for nothing :) ..nice post

madhavan said...

gud one abt love

~*UV*~ said...

Thank you all :) Do browse through the other posts and comment!